Examining Your Life Honestly in the Light of God’s Word

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Making Scripture the Standard of Examination

Honest examination begins when the Christian allows Scripture to define faithfulness instead of measuring himself chiefly by his intentions, reputation, or comparison with others. A person can appear responsible within his community while maintaining practices that contradict Jehovah’s requirements. He might be dependable at work yet regularly mislead his family about spending, or speak confidently about biblical morality while treating an unpopular congregational member with contempt. Galatians 6:4 directs each person to examine his own work, placing attention on actual conduct rather than borrowed confidence from someone else’s failures. The passage does not encourage endless inward scrutiny that prevents useful action. It calls for an honest assessment of what the individual himself is doing. Such assessment requires a standard beyond personal comfort because familiar habits often seem acceptable simply through repetition. God’s Word supplies that standard by identifying both the wrongdoing that must be abandoned and the qualities that must be developed.

The Christian should therefore examine a specific area of life in relation to specific biblical instruction. A general question about whether he is a good person can produce an equally general answer that exposes little. A more useful examination asks whether his recent statements agreed with Ephesians 4:25, whether his financial conduct agreed with the prohibition of stealing in Ephesians 4:28, and whether his treatment of others reflected the kindness required in Ephesians 4:32. These questions direct attention to observable behavior without pretending that outward acts reveal every motive automatically. A person reviewing his speech can consider a conversation in which he exaggerated another individual’s mistake to make himself appear competent. He can then name the exaggeration accurately rather than describing it merely as an unfortunate exchange. The examination becomes truthful when biblical categories replace convenient explanations. Its purpose is to bring conduct under Jehovah’s authority, not to produce a favorable account of the person conducting the review.

Moving Beyond Comparison and Reputation

Comparison with other people often prevents honest examination because it offers an easier standard than Scripture. A man who habitually loses his temper may reassure himself that he never becomes physically violent, while a dishonest employee may point to coworkers who steal more openly. Those comparisons do not answer whether his own conduct is righteous. Romans 12:3 requires sober judgment rather than an inflated estimate of oneself, and that judgment cannot rest on selecting someone whose behavior is worse. The Christian should recognize that another person’s wrongdoing does not reduce his responsibility to obey. If his words are degrading, their wrongness is not removed because someone else uses harsher language. If he has withheld money that belongs to another person, the amount taken by a different individual is irrelevant to his obligation. Biblical examination places his own action before the revealed standard and refuses the shelter of a favorable comparison.

Reputation creates a related difficulty when someone becomes more concerned with maintaining an appearance than correcting a fault. A respected teacher may find it especially difficult to admit that he has been careless with facts, because the admission could expose a discrepancy between his public role and private practice. Yet James 3:1 emphasizes the serious accountability attached to teaching, making honesty particularly necessary for those who instruct others. The proper response to an error is to correct it clearly and stop repeating it. Concealing the mistake to preserve authority allows the original fault to produce additional wrongdoing. The same principle applies to parents whose children have seen them break a promise or speak falsely. An acknowledgment of wrongdoing can strengthen truthful instruction because it demonstrates that the parent also stands under Scripture. Genuine credibility grows through accountable conduct rather than through maintaining an image of having nothing to correct.

Looking at Patterns, Circumstances, and Motives

An isolated action should be examined accurately, but recurring patterns also deserve attention. A Christian who repeatedly becomes harsh immediately after receiving criticism should consider more than the wording of one argument. The recurring circumstances may reveal a determination to protect his status, avoid embarrassment, or escape responsibility. James 4:1-3 connects conflict with desires operating within people, showing that outward disputes can arise from inward demands. The individual should ask what he believed he had to obtain when the conflict began. He may discover that he was willing to damage another person’s dignity in order to remain unquestioned. That recognition does not require pretending to know every hidden feature of his heart. It requires acknowledging the motive sufficiently supported by his words, decisions, and repeated responses, then measuring that motive against the humility and love required in Scripture.

Care is necessary because honest examination must not become unsupported accusation against oneself. A person who forgets an appointment should consider whether the failure resulted from carelessness, an unreasonable schedule, illness, or a misunderstanding before assigning a moral explanation. Scripture condemns wrongdoing, but it does not require the Christian to classify every limitation as deliberate rebellion. Psalm 103:14 recognizes human frailty, and that recognition should encourage accurate rather than exaggerated assessment. If the person has habitually promised more than he can reasonably accomplish, his responsibility may include changing how he makes commitments. If an unusual emergency prevented attendance, the appropriate action may be an explanation and an effort to address the inconvenience. In either case, the facts should govern the conclusion. The believer must resist both self-excusing minimization and self-condemning exaggeration because neither one describes his conduct truthfully.

Receiving Correction Without Defending the Fault

Other people can help identify conduct that the individual has become accustomed to overlooking. Proverbs 12:1 connects love of instruction with knowledge and exposes the folly of rejecting reproof. A Christian should therefore listen when a spouse, mature believer, employer, or friend describes a genuine problem in his behavior. Listening does not require accepting every accusation as accurate, but it does require allowing the evidence to be considered before offering a defense. If several people independently explain that he interrupts and speaks dismissively, he should examine specific conversations rather than assume that all of them misunderstand him. He can ask for an example, listen to the account, and compare his conduct with James 1:19. Even when the correction is delivered imperfectly, it may identify something true that needs attention. The fault in another person’s manner does not automatically invalidate the substance of the concern.

Defensiveness frequently appears through explanations that are partly true but morally incomplete. A tired parent may say that a demanding day explains his harshness, and the demanding day may indeed help explain why restraint was difficult. It does not justify calling a child worthless or using fear to enforce compliance. Ephesians 6:4 requires fathers to avoid provoking their children to anger and to provide instruction consistent with the Lord’s direction. The parent should therefore distinguish the circumstances surrounding his wrongdoing from the responsibility for the words he chose. He can acknowledge fatigue while also admitting that his speech violated a real duty. Practical correction may include a more manageable evening routine, a brief pause before addressing disobedience, and a direct acknowledgment to the child. Those adjustments address both the immediate sin and the conditions in which the pattern has been recurring.

Confessing Specifically and Correcting What Can Be Corrected

Confession should name wrongdoing plainly enough that responsibility is understood. Proverbs 28:13 joins confession with abandoning transgression, making clear that acknowledgment and change belong together. A vague admission that someone has made mistakes can leave the actual wrong concealed and the injured person uncertain whether it has been recognized. A man who has lied about a purchase should identify the lie and the financial decision it concealed. A person who spread an accusation without adequate evidence should acknowledge that he presented an unverified claim as established fact. The confession should not shift responsibility through wording that blames the other person’s sensitivity or reaction. Nor should it be expanded into a dramatic account designed chiefly to secure reassurance for the offender. Its purpose is truthful acknowledgment before Jehovah and, where appropriate, before the person affected.

Correction should then reach the consequences that remain within the individual’s ability to address. If money was taken, it should be returned; if false information was spread, the people who received it should be given an accurate correction. Luke 19:8 records Zacchaeus’s determination to address financial wrongdoing through restitution, illustrating that repentance has practical consequences. The details of every modern situation will differ, but the responsibility to repair what can be repaired remains clear. A Christian cannot undo words already spoken, yet he can stop defending them and correct the false impression they created. He cannot restore every lost opportunity, but he can accept appropriate consequences and act faithfully in the responsibilities that remain. Where the damage exceeds his immediate resources, he can make an honest arrangement instead of using inability as an excuse for doing nothing. Such action demonstrates that confession concerns changed conduct rather than relief from an uncomfortable conversation.

Practicing Examination Without Becoming Absorbed in Oneself

Regular examination can be brief, specific, and connected with ordinary responsibilities. A Christian might review a difficult conversation, a financial decision, or a recurring use of leisure time while considering the passages that govern it. The value lies in the accuracy of the review, not in the number of minutes devoted to inward attention. James 1:23-25 describes the person who sees his condition in a mirror but goes away without responding appropriately. The corresponding danger is recognizing a fault and then returning unchanged to the behavior that produced it. A useful review therefore leads toward one concrete adjustment, such as correcting an exaggeration, returning a borrowed item, or replacing a contemptuous response with patient explanation. The person can also recognize conduct that agreed with Scripture without claiming personal superiority. That recognition helps him continue what is good while directing attention to what still needs correction.

Examination should ultimately prepare the Christian for faithful service rather than make his own condition the subject of every thought. Galatians 6:1-2 connects personal watchfulness with gently helping an erring believer and bearing one another’s burdens. The person who has acknowledged his own need for correction is better prepared to offer assistance without arrogance. He can understand that another believer’s failure requires truth, patience, and practical help rather than humiliation. At the same time, he must continue fulfilling his own responsibilities instead of treating awareness of imperfection as a reason to withdraw from useful work. A father who has corrected harsh speech should resume patient instruction of his children rather than abandon discipline altogether. A teacher who has corrected an inaccurate statement should continue teaching carefully, checking his facts and receiving further correction when needed. Honest examination produces a more accountable servant because the believer carries what he has learned into the next responsibility before him.

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EDWARD D. ANDREWS (AS in Criminal Justice, BS in Religion, MA in Biblical Studies, and MDiv in Theology) is CEO and President of Christian Publishing House. He has authored over 220+ books. In addition, Andrews is the Chief Translator of the Updated American Standard Version (UASV).

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