Developing Intimacy With God

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Developing intimacy with God is not a mystical experience, nor is it reserved for a select group of spiritual elites. It is the divinely appointed privilege of every Christian who seeks to draw near to Jehovah through His inspired Word and in prayer. The Scriptures declare, “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you” (James 4:8). This statement is not mere rhetoric but a guaranteed promise rooted in Jehovah’s own character. The Creator of the heavens and the earth has opened the way for His children to know Him personally, deeply, and relationally, through the means He has provided in Scripture. To develop such intimacy, Christians must cultivate reverence for His Word, obedience to His commands, constancy in prayer, and trust in His fatherly care.

The Biblical Foundation of Intimacy With God

The concept of intimacy with God is firmly grounded in Scripture. Jehovah’s desire has always been for His people to know Him, love Him, and walk in fellowship with Him. From the garden of Eden, where Adam and Eve enjoyed open communion with their Creator before their disobedience, to the covenantal relationship Jehovah established with Abraham and his descendants, intimacy with God has been a central theme of redemptive history. Abraham is called “the friend of God” (James 2:23) because of his faith, obedience, and close walk with Jehovah. Similarly, Moses spoke with God “face to face, just as a man speaks to his friend” (Exodus 33:11).

This intimacy, however, is never casual or presumptuous. It is rooted in awe, reverence, and obedience. The psalmist captures this when he writes, “The friendship of Jehovah is for those who fear Him, and He makes known to them His covenant” (Psalm 25:14). Intimacy with God does not bypass reverence; rather, it grows out of it. Those who take lightly His commands or treat Him as though He were equal to man cannot enjoy the depth of relationship that Jehovah has reserved for those who humble themselves before Him.

In the New Testament, intimacy with God is revealed most fully through Jesus Christ. By His sacrifice, Jesus removed the barrier of sin that separated humanity from God (Hebrews 10:19–22). Through Him, Christians are granted access into the very presence of Jehovah, not through visions, emotions, or mystical experiences, but through faith in Christ’s atoning work and adherence to the Word He inspired through His apostles.

The Role of Scripture in Developing Intimacy

Intimacy with God is inseparably tied to His Word. Jesus prayed to the Father, “Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth” (John 17:17). The believer who desires to draw near to Jehovah must saturate his mind with Scripture, allowing it to shape his thoughts, direct his actions, and govern his affections. The Word of God is not merely information to be studied, but divine revelation to be obeyed.

Psalm 119 provides a profound portrait of intimacy with Jehovah through His Word. The psalmist declares, “With all my heart I have sought You; do not let me stray from Your commandments. I have treasured Your word in my heart, so that I may not sin against You” (Psalm 119:10–11). Treasuring God’s Word is a mark of true intimacy, for one cannot claim closeness with Jehovah while disregarding His commands.

It is important to stress that intimacy with God does not come through feelings, visions, or inner voices. The Holy Spirit does not mystically indwell believers to whisper secret revelations. Instead, He has given the inspired Scriptures once for all, perfectly sufficient to guide, instruct, and equip the Christian (2 Timothy 3:16–17). To know God deeply is to know His Word deeply, for in the Bible He has revealed His character, His will, and His purposes.

The Discipline of Prayer in Intimacy

While Scripture provides the revelation of God’s will, prayer is the means by which the Christian communes with Jehovah. Jesus modeled this intimacy in His earthly life, often withdrawing to solitary places to pray (Luke 5:16). He taught His disciples to approach God not as a distant ruler, but as their Father in heaven (Matthew 6:9).

Prayer is not mechanical repetition, nor is it an attempt to manipulate God into granting selfish desires. It is the outpouring of the heart in reverence, thanksgiving, confession, and supplication. Through prayer, believers express their dependence upon Jehovah, their trust in His providence, and their longing for His will to be done. Intimacy is cultivated as the Christian spends time with God in prayer, just as a child deepens his relationship with a loving father through conversation and closeness.

The apostle Paul commands believers to “pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17), indicating that prayer is not merely a set time or ritual, but an ongoing posture of heart and mind. To live in continual awareness of God’s presence, seeking His guidance, thanking Him for His blessings, and depending upon Him for strength, is the essence of intimacy.

Obedience as the Pathway to Intimacy

True intimacy with Jehovah cannot exist apart from obedience. Jesus declared, “The one who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and the one who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him” (John 14:21). Love for God is inseparable from obedience to His Word. Those who claim intimacy while living in defiance of His commands deceive themselves.

The Old Testament repeatedly illustrates this truth. Israel was called into covenant with Jehovah, not simply to enjoy blessings, but to walk in faithful obedience. When they obeyed, they enjoyed His presence and protection; when they rebelled, intimacy was broken, and they experienced His discipline. The same principle applies to Christians today. Sin grieves God and hinders fellowship with Him, while obedience nurtures closeness.

Obedience is not a means of earning God’s favor but the expression of love and reverence for Him. The believer who delights in God’s Word, prays faithfully, and obeys sincerely, walks in close fellowship with Jehovah.

Trusting in God’s Providence

Intimacy with God also involves learning to trust Him in all circumstances. Proverbs 3:5–6 exhorts, “Trust in Jehovah with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Trust is not passive resignation but active confidence in God’s character, promises, and sovereignty.

Many believers struggle to develop intimacy because they withhold trust, attempting to control their own lives instead of resting in Jehovah’s wisdom. Yet intimacy grows as we yield our anxieties, plans, and desires to Him, confident that His purposes are always good and His care is unfailing. The more we learn to rely upon His promises, the more our fellowship deepens.

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The Goal of Intimacy With God

The ultimate goal of developing intimacy with God is not self-fulfillment or emotional satisfaction but the glorification of Jehovah through a life that reflects His character. Jesus taught that the greatest commandment is to “love Jehovah your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37). Such wholehearted devotion results in a life that brings honor to Him and blessing to others.

In eternity, intimacy with God will reach its fullest expression, as the redeemed dwell in His presence forever (Revelation 21:3). Yet even now, Christians can taste the sweetness of fellowship with their Creator by drawing near to Him in Scripture, prayer, obedience, and trust.

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About the Author

EDWARD D. ANDREWS (AS in Criminal Justice, BS in Religion, MA in Biblical Studies, and MDiv in Theology) is CEO and President of Christian Publishing House. He has authored over 220+ books. In addition, Andrews is the Chief Translator of the Updated American Standard Version (UASV).

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